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I have a double life. On one hand I love my home and children and simplicity and on another I need stimulation from another sort of man. I’ve always found myself falling into this pattern, no matter how many times I promise myself it is just once more, or just one more man. My husband does not know. He suspects. But he doesn’t want to end the marriage. Neither do I! Am I crazy? More importantly am I alone?

Your thoughts?
 
Doubled Over

Dear Julia and Christine,

I’d really like your opinion. I am on multiple on line dating services and I also meet many attractive, available men through my business. I have too many choices! The question is, do you think I should look for someone who is my mirror image or would one who is opposite me in most respects offer a greater chance for success and happiness?

Bombarded

Dear Dating Savant,

     I have a problem. This really hot guy who I’ve had this “thing” for invited  me to visit him. We’ve always been pretty compatible. It seems that he wants to play head games with females more than he wishes to just spend quality time with me. I knew he was chatting with an acquaintance of mine on facebook, and telling me everything she said (supposedly.) Now that I’ve driven out of town to see him, I find out that she has booked a hotel room and she’s coming tomorrow! He has put me in the awkward sitaution of aiding him in getting out of “double trouble.” What should I do? I know there are choices- I could go shopping while he spent time with her and then resume our weekend. I could leave and refuse to put up with this treatment. Or, I could just be nice to her and act like Jackson and I are just friends. I was considering moving in with him before this. I’m confused!!!

Sandra in Seattle