My Double Life, Am I Alone?

Jul 08

I have a double life. On one hand I love my home and children and simplicity and on another I need stimulation from another sort of man. I’ve always found myself falling into this pattern, no matter how many times I promise myself it is just once more, or just one more man. My husband does not know. He suspects. But he doesn’t want to end the marriage. Neither do I! Am I crazy? More importantly am I alone?

Your thoughts?
 
Doubled Over

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Anonymous 4 comments Q & A

How do I choose? One just like me or my opposite?

Apr 18

Dear Julia and Christine,

I’d really like your opinion. I am on multiple on line dating services and I also meet many attractive, available men through my business. I have too many choices! The question is, do you think I should look for someone who is my mirror image or would one who is opposite me in most respects offer a greater chance for success and happiness?

Bombarded

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I Pluck Every Other Petal…

Apr 17

Dear Julia and Christine,
I have a problem. At least, I think it is a problem. I become so absorbed with a guy as soon as I fall for him, which is pretty quickly. I think about him when I’m not with him. I play the sexual encounters over and over in my head. I feel as if I’m having conversations with him when he’s away.  I feel, once I’ve made love to a man, that I have a special vibe with him. Is this too weird? Am I obsessive compulsive? Do you think that my total belief in my man might dim my perceptions of… another reality??
 
I PLUCK EVERY OTHER PETAL…he LOVES me!
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Anonymous 2 comments Q & A