Dear Dating Savant,

     I have a problem. This really hot guy who I’ve had this “thing” for invited  me to visit him. We’ve always been pretty compatible. It seems that he wants to play head games with females more than he wishes to just spend quality time with me. I knew he was chatting with an acquaintance of mine on facebook, and telling me everything she said (supposedly.) Now that I’ve driven out of town to see him, I find out that she has booked a hotel room and she’s coming tomorrow! He has put me in the awkward sitaution of aiding him in getting out of “double trouble.” What should I do? I know there are choices- I could go shopping while he spent time with her and then resume our weekend. I could leave and refuse to put up with this treatment. Or, I could just be nice to her and act like Jackson and I are just friends. I was considering moving in with him before this. I’m confused!!!

Sandra in Seattle